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CHAPTER 4: THE EMOTIONAL BODY
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"You are what you think and feel."
Author unknown
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After my first two years of studying and practicing
N.O.T. on my patients, I found that occasionally I would
perform a correction and the muscle test would still show a
weakness. I would retry the correction but no matter what
physical technique I employed, the circuit would not return to
normal strength.
There is a saying that "when the pupil is ready, the
teacher arrives" and so it was with me. My next teacher was
Dr. Scott Walker, a chiropractor from Encinitas, California,
and the founder of Neuro Emotional Technique (N.E.T.®). I
began to study his techniques, incorporated them into my
practice in 1993 and continued taking his seminars for the next
two to three years.
Research has demonstrated that certain chemical
messengers, called neuropeptides, are created in the brain and
travel throughout the body whenever we experience an
emotion. The power and influence of neuropeptides can be
witnessed when a person is frightened by a snake, for example.
The body may freeze, a wave of nausea may flood the stomach,
or beads of sweat may start to trickle down the person's back.
Even the sound of a snake's rattle or the picture of a snake can
elicit a physical response in some subjects. Very often people
dismiss such reactions as phobias and accept that nothing can
be done to change it. They carry on with their lives, but are
forever fretful and fearful of snakes whenever outdoors.
The exciting news is that this doesn't have to happen. It
is now possible to change the body's response patterns and
clear such negative reflexes quickly and easily. That is precisely what N.E.T.® is all
about. By resetting the body's
"emotional" computer we can unblock old sabotages, fears,
and response patterns that chain us to the past. This is very
important since the fear of suffering can often be worse than
the suffering itself.
There are currently a number of different techniques
that address the neuro-emotional component of human well
being. They each have their own strategy for locating old
response patterns and resetting the body to allow for new and
more desirable ones. It is important to understand the basic
theory.
When experiencing an emotion for the first time, a
mother's kiss for instance, the body secretes neurochemicals
via the nervous system and the result of this chemical reaction
is that we "feel good". A positive stimulus-response pattern is
created. In the future whenever that individual thinks about
being kissed or sees an image of a woman kissing a child, the
brain checks its "filing cabinet ", finds the previous favorable
file in the nervous system, and the brain-body response is to
"feel good", loved, accepted etc.
Conversely, when a father explodes at his three-year old
son for hitting a baby sister the result can be a defensive
response, much like that discussed in the previous chapter. If
the experience is highly emotional and physically stressful the
body may not be able to reset or let go of the emotional charge
related to the event. The youngster will then forge a
stimulus-response
reaction between mind and body that Dr. Walker has
termed a Neuro-emotional complex or NEC. In this example
the NEC created will relate to how the youngster will respond
to anger or criticism from a male. From then on, whenever a
male becomes angry or critical of them, they respond as
previously programmed: defensively. Of course this can
manifest itself in many different ways: as feeling combative,
crushed, closed down, frightened, anxious or a wide variety of
other emotions depending on the person's personality. This
can also result in physical contractions such as tightened
shoulders, clenched jaw and clenched fists. Even though an
individual may not consciously understand it, every time a
male directs anger at them - it may now be a teacher or
employer - the brain sends a message to the body saying: "I
don't like this, it doesn't feel good, it brings up old bad
feelings,
it is a threat to me." The body moves into defence based on a program that
was created in a past situation where defence may have been necessary
at that time. We must
remember that the reason why these emotions are stored in the
subconscious and eventually into the body is so that the person could get through the trauma.
It is a survival response. The event is painful or frightening
or
ugly, so the response is to hide the feeling deep inside and get
on with life.
Such primitive stimulus-response patterns have likely
existed in human beings throughout evolution, but modern
science is now proving what the Chinese observed thousands
of years ago: The "chi" or energy (the neurochemicals) of
certain emotions connects with and is stored in certain organs,
pathways or meridians of the body.
Anger, for example, is believed to be stored in the liver
meridian, and the liver is an organ that has a multitude of
physical functions in the human body. Largely responsible for
filtering impurities out of the blood, it helps keep the immune
system strong and, along with the pancreas, is a regulator of
blood sugar levels. When the liver is weak it can cause blood
sugar imbalances (hypoglycemia) which lead to ill health if a
person doesn't eat over a short period of time. It can cause
weakness in the immune system and result in recurrent colds
and infections as well as a feeling of being generally run down.
It can also refer pain to the mid-back and right shoulder, as
these areas of the body specifically relate to the liver.
I treated a 40-year-old man who had experienced pain
in his right shoulder for some years and no amount of physical
therapy gave him any relief. His body was indicating that the
cause of the pain was emotionally related so I approached the
case from the emotional standpoint, in order to properly
correct the condition. The body revealed that the original stimulus-response
pattern that was referring to his shoulder originated from an event at 14 years
of age. He remembered a significant event that had happened to him at 14 years of
age. We performed N.E.T and it cleared within 10 minutes of the
treatment. The shoulder dramatically increased in range of motion and the pain never returned.
I believe these programs are implanted as primitive
fight/flight response mechanisms. The body thinks: "This is too much too deal
with right now and I have other things that must be dealt with, so I will store
this energy somewhere and get on with life." I also believe that such early
responses are stored because parents fail to talk to their children or apologize
after an emotional upset. By talking things through and learning to forgive and
forget, we learn how to heal and let things go. Without early training in how to
release anger and other stressful feelings, emotional upsets start piling up
year after year until we are carrying a large cargo of negative baggage around.
Kinesiologists can use muscle testing to find out if the
body is retaining emotional angst. We can access these
subconscious thought patterns and beliefs, and reset the
body's response so these patterns stop holding people back
from living the lives they want to lead.
One way to access the "program" is to have a patient
think of the pain and see if a muscle goes weak. If it does,
they
are then asked to touch two energy points located on the front
of the forehead, which are related to the emotional circuitry.
If
a weak muscle becomes strong while the person is contacting
the points and thinking of the pain (i.e. a change has
occurred),
it indicates a neuro-emotional component. If the muscle stays
weak this indicates no emotional component at the time and
the practitioner can continue looking for either a physical or a
chemical cause. It eliminates guesswork for both doctor and
patient, saves unnecessary treatments, time, and money - and
employs the natural wisdom of the body.
Once an emotional component is identified, how does a
healer unravel what the issue is and proceed to clear it? A
verbal process, developed by N.E.T.®, is played between the
doctor and the patient's subconscious using the muscle response testing. The
body answers a verbal question with a "non-congruent" or "congruent" response
that is provided via a muscle staying strong or going weak. This may cause some
readers to raise their eyebrows but the process must be experienced in order to
be truly understood.
An experienced practitioner develops the art of asking
the right questions, narrowing down the field of possibilities, zeroing in on
the problem and helping the patient interpret the answers. It is important to
note that when this technique is used the patient is always fully conscious and
assisting the practitioner, not in any kind of hypnotic state. The patient is
not consciously answering any questions, however, he is letting his body speak
for him through muscle response testing.
Here is the kind of dialogue that might take place when
I am practicing this technique, using our previous example of the father who
exploded with anger at his three-year-old son. The test child, now a grown man,
is complaining about problems with his right shoulder. I believe it might have
an emotional component so am working in that "program": Remember, I am talking
out loud to his body and he is focusing on keeping the muscle strong rather than
listening to the question and assuming the answer.
| Dr: "Does this pain have to do
with an event?" |
Test-
muscle remains strong
(means "non congruent" NC) |
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Dr: "Or a person?"
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Test-muscle goes weak
(meaning "congruent" C) |
| Dr: "A female?" |
Strong -
"NC" |
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Dr: "A male?"
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Weak -
"C" |
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Dr: "A family member?"
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Weak -
"C" |
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Dr: "Your brother?"
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Strong
-"NC" |
| Dr: "Your father?"
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Weak -
"C" |
| Dr: "You and your father and
anyone else?" |
Strong -
"NC" |
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Dr: "Only you and your father?"
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Weak -
"C" |
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Dr: "Does this have to do with you as and adult?
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Strong -
"NC" |
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Dr: "Or as a child?"
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Weak -
"C" |
| Dr: "You between conception to
birth?" |
Strong -
"NC" |
| Dr: "You between birth to five
years of age?" |
Weak -
"C" |
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Dr: "You between birth to one year of age?"
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Strong -
"NC" |
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Dr: "You between one to two years of age?"
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Strong -
"NC" |
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Dr: "You between two to three years of age?"
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Strong
- "NC" |
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Dr: "You between three to four years of age?"
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Weak
- "C" |
The technique resembles a game of 20 questions, or one
that many of us played as children called Animal, Vegetable,
Mineral where we deduced the answer by constantly
narrowing the range of options. This process is played on a
profound level, however, where the practitioner is literally
communicating with the subconscious and does not assume
anything. The reasoning mind is bypassed and the body is
giving the answers as to what it holds a negative or positive
charge to. At this point in our example we have located what
Dr. Walker refers to as a "snapshot" of what the body has
stored, and when. The man's body indicates the pain in his
right shoulder has a neuro-emotional component tied to an incident that
occurred when he was 3 to 4 years of age involving him and his father.
At this point the doctor does not know what the
involved emotion might be. Chinese medicine, Chiropractic and Applied
Kinesiology have found that there are reflex points specific to each organ of
the body and they can indicate involvement with particular snapshots. So
continuing with the same example, the liver point might show involvement when
tested while the other organ points would not. Since we know that the liver
meridian holds the emotions of anger and resentment, the doctor would pose the
supposition as follows:
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Dr: "Is the involved emotion resentment?"
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Strong -
"NC" |
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Dr: "Hatred?"
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Strong -
"NC" |
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Dr: "Anger?"
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Weak -
"C" |
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Dr: "Does this have to do with your anger at your
father?"
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Strong -
"NC" |
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Dr: "Does this have to do with your father's
anger at you?"
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Weak -
"C" |
At this point the doctor may ask the patient if he
recalls any situation where his father may have been angry with him at 3 to 4
years of age. Sometimes the patient will know of an event or have a vague idea.
It is the responsibility of both the doctor and patient to assume nothing, and
let the body reveal what it is holding onto. The body never lies and it
remembers everything. If the patient says, "It's probably because I spilled my
milk at the dinner table," then we must do a muscle test while they hold that
thought. If the circuit tests strong then that event is not a stressor and is
not the event we are looking for. If it weakens, however, we know we have hit
the target and that this thought is still having a weakening effect on the body.
Even if the patient has no recollection of an event, we can still clear the
block because the body simply reveals its secrets by going weak (losing energy)
whenever it is holding onto a negative charge.
We need to survive in the jungle and if something
stresses us too abruptly, too harshly, or for too long, we stuff
it
away and move on to the next event. Over and over, these
emotional upsets are stored in our subconscious minds and
bodies until one day they overload the computer circuitry.
That's when we have an unexplained emotional or physical
breakdown.
As we grow out of childhood and start to gain a better
understanding of this world, we all have certain idiosyncrasies
that seem to hold us back from becoming who we truly want to
be. Many people see psychiatrists or psychologists in an effort
to recognize and change patterns. Such talk therapy is often
important and empowering because it enables individuals,
through trained professionals, to understand themselves and
achieve solutions. The drawback is that while the emotions
may be intellectually cleared, the stresses often remain locked
in the body at a primitive
level and the patient still has
negative gut reactions related to their issues.
Unfortunately, some patients endure years of probing
that fail to find the answers. So where does a person turn when they cannot
remember the original event that caused their negative belief pattern or
permanent defensive stance? Muscle response testing holds the key to unlocking
these past responses because it provides immediate, accurate feedback.
Once identified there are many different ways of
deleting or disconnecting a negative mind-body response.
Some therapists do spinal adjustments or rub acupuncture
points, some use breathing techniques or have patients do
certain eye movements. My experience in defusing such
responses is to urge patients to hold onto the particular
feeling
at the moment of correction. Even if they don't remember the
event, they can hold the emotion in their mind while the
experience is being "cleared." Those who are computer literate
know that hitting the "delete" key is easy, the important thing
is to have the correct information up on the screen.
When using this technique it is important to emphasize
that we don't erase memories or brainwash people. We simply
disarm or halt the negative brain-to-body response that was
based on a previously learned event so that the person can
respond to new events in a fresh, open way, not only mentally
but physically too. They can live in the now, and physically
start responding to events based on the present moment, not
something in the past.
Once the correction is made, the doctor can test the area
of pain again and see if there is still a weak muscle response.
If
there is, and the emotional points on the forehead confirm this,
then another emotional event is present and must be dealt
with. If the muscle test stays weak it indicates that there is
not
another emotional event but possibly a factor on the other two
sides of the triad of health, namely the physical or chemical
factors.
Understand that once an N.E.C is cleared it does not
mean you will never have an emotionally challenging lesson or experience ever
again, or will be pain free forever. It means that you can deal with events and
situations in present time knowing that you are at full strength energetically
in mind and body, while one is living through the event or stressful life
situation. If you are not congruent neurologically in your body with some part
of the situation that is occurring, you can do all the affirmations and prayers
but the stronger "charge" (the physically engrained negative body response) will
take precedence and thus manifest.
I feel that this is often why people feel so apathetic
and docile in their life choices. Inside they know they are good, deserve to be
loved, want to have material security to enjoy a fair and decent quality of
life, and to have a career that they are passionate about. They just don't
realize that they are filled with old and incorrect programs that are ruling
their lives.
Many of the people who come to my office do not
complain about any particular pain or symptom, but of just
feeling "stuck" in life. They have difficulties in
relationships,
or obstacles to dieting, quitting smoking, etc., or they suffer
from phobias. With these people we can access the program
by having them make verbal statements and then seeing if
their bodies stays strong during the statement.
For example, one could be asked to state: " I am okay
with quitting smoking" but when I test a muscle while they say
it, the muscle goes weak, indicating that they are not congruent
with this statement. If a contact over the emotional centers
makes it strong, I then begin the same procedure as described
earlier. Using the right words
is important when accessing
brain / body files. "I'm okay
with quitting smoking" is a
different concept from, "It's good for me to quit smoking." The
former could lead back to past issues dealing with a lack of
self-worth/self respect, and the person's desire to care for themselves. The
latter may deal with issues related to morality and public perception (i.e.
smoking is bad). Since this is the faulty brain-to-body program - in other words
"I don't value my body or myself" - any conscious attempt to value it through
quitting smoking, exercising or dieting is going to fail because it contradicts
what the subconscious brain-to-body response is programmed to do.
The body will always follow the mind's
programming. This may help explain why some people actually follow the right
diet or sign up for the best quit smoking program in the world, but the problem
gets worse. We call this "emotional sabotage."
If the issue is properly and permanently cleared
then the muscle response will stay strong, indicating they are now congruent
with the thought not only in mind, but also in body. Dr. Walker calls this
"emotional congruence." This does not necessarily mean a person will quit
smoking immediately after a treatment, but an important psychological hurdle
will have been cleared. The body is now able to support that new thought
pattern.
The goal of this technique is to help people become
emotionally congruent with every possible aspect of their existence, be it
physically, materially, romantically or spiritually. I encourage everyone to
seek the services of a qualified practitioner in this field because all of us
have had emotional "upsets" in our lives and are probably holding onto some
negative, damaging energy somewhere in our bodies. We must also let go of the
feeling that if we have a problem we are weak or imperfect.
As the saying goes, "stuff happens." But people now
have a choice. They don't have to carry that "stuff" around anymore because
there are powerful techniques that can clear it away. I emphasize that people
should not wait for a problem to surface, nor be paranoid that every little
crisis will be creating stress and problems for them. Visit a practitioner for
preventative care from time to time, and get on with living life the best you
can.
For further information, please contact:
Neuro Emotional Technique
Dr. Scott Walker
nd 500 2 Street
Encinitas, California 92024
Phone: 619-944-1030
Website:
netmindbody.com
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